7.07.2021

they wore their strange beauty like war paint

121. How do you feel about buying and using secondhand items?  "accustomed"
122. Is there a place in your city that you actively avoid?  not that I can think of
123. Would you want to go to the gym together with friends?  maybe one or two of them. I'm not big on group exercise.
125. Have you ever been disappointed in your idol?  no idols
127. Do you ever look up your old friends or classmates online?  in law school each year we were given a printed directory of all the students, faculty and staff with photographs and contact info. It was marginally helpful at the time for things like
setting up study groups. The best part, though, was its nickname: The Stalker's Guide. Even the profs called it that.
    I rarely seek out anyone to who I'm not already connection. Life is busy enough without adding to the drama.

128. What kind of stuff do you miss from when you were younger?  kickball. My kitties. Holding hands on the sly with my crush. Playing in the sandbox. Driving for hours on weekend nights with my BFF riding shotgun. Eating at Happy Chef. Going to Cubs games. Sleeping til noon every chance I got...
129. What’s the longest you have gone without sleep?  a day and a half, maybe?
130. What do you think is the most important thing in maintaining a friendship?  time and space - time together, and time between. Being together, and space between.
131. Would you like to live in a utopian society? feh
132. Are there any trends you consciously try to avoid?  most of them
133. What’s your relationship with technology?  it's complicated
134. What do you spend most of your energy on?  thinking
136. Have you ever felt like your world is falling apart?  yup, I was indeed a 14-y-o girl once
137. Would you change the past if you could?  yes
138. Are violent sports ethical?  "ethical"? If you don't like it, don't do it, don't watch it, and don't contribute to the economic viability. That ought to soothe your "ethics."

139. Are you okay with being alone for long periods of time?  very much so
140. Do you see the beauty in things people don’t normally see it in?  sometimes. I think everyone has their own sense of unique beauty.
141. Would you take a 50/50 chance of losing everything you currently have vs becoming wealthy, if all you had to do was push a button?  those odds would not tempt me
142. Do you think you should clean up after yourself in a fast food joint if there are employees paid to do that?  this is a quaint question in The New Normal. I absolutely believe in throwing out my own trash and returning a tray, that sort of thing. But no, I'm not going to tidy up crumbs that have fallen. Tables need to be cleaned between customers.
143. Do you think tattoos must have meaning behind them or is it okay to have them simply as a piece of art?  art is fine. "Meaning" behind tattoos is a
tenuous concept anyway.
145. What’s the biggest problem in our society?  simplistic questions
146. Is the way you will be buried important to you, or is it up to the people that will have to deal with it?  it's important that I'm not buried, and that I deal with it so no one else has to
147. Is happiness more important than other states?  happiness is much more important than most states, particularly Tennessee and Arizona
148. Why do some people enjoy knowing that something they like isn’t popular?  because popularity is vacuous and fleeting. It has nothing to do with value.
149. How would you spend your time if you were imprisoned in a room for life but had unlimited options inside of it, except for human contact?  plotting my own death, and reading a lot
150. Do you ever wish you were born in another decade?  I have. It sometimes seems like things would be easier/better if I'd been born a decade earlier.
 
[from here and cherry-picked; the title quotation is by Holly Black, from The Coldest Girl in Coldtown]

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