1.31.2023

slowly there comes a sense that for some time the burden has been what you need anyway

For years the dead 
were the terrible weight of their absence, 
the weight of what one had not put in their hands. 
Rarely a visitation—dream or vision—
lifted that load for a moment, like someone 
standing behind one and briefly taking 
the heft of a frameless pack. 
But the straps remained, and the ache—
though you can learn not to feel it 
except when malicious memory 
pulls downward with sudden force. 
Slowly there comes a sense 
that for some time the burden 
has been what you need anyway. 
How flimsy to be without it, ungrounded, blown 
hither and thither, colliding with stern solids. 
And then they begin to return, the dead: 
but not as visions. They're not 
separate now, not to be seen, no, 
it's they who see: they displace, 
for seconds, for minutes, maybe longer, 
the mourner's gaze with their own. Just now, 
that shift of light, arpeggio 
on ocean's harp—
not the accustomed bearer 
of heavy absence saw it, it was perceived 
by the long-dead, long absent, looking 
out from within one's wideopen eyes. 
 

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