1 Which would you rather have: a partner stripping very seductively and very slowly while you watched, or coming home to find that partner already naked on the bed waiting for you?
the former, for sure. Sexual relationships are best when they are interactive. The journey is prehaps more important—and fascinating—than the destination, right?
2 What movie do you think makes most people incredibly horny?
the hottest mainstream movie I've ever seen is The Big Easy, which is not a terribly good film but contains a couple of sultry scenes that are incredibly sexy without toppling headlong into softcore. If Dennis Quaid and Ellen Barkin were not actually making love on film, they gave an Oscar-worthy portrayal of it, from start to finish. No pun, or exaggeration, intended.
3 What are the top three erogenous zones on the body?
brain, eyes, and ears (both physically and auditory). For a stickler who would argue that those 3 overlap—remove 'brain' and substitute 'neck'.
4 Handcuffs: Yay! or Nay?
nay. Being unable to move, especially my hands, makes me panic.
Also, I was involved with a cop for a time, and despite (several) offers, I was never even tempted.
5 Have you ever had a sexual cue to communicate with a partner in public and absolutely want to go home?
not exactly? Though my (and others'? maybe?) good relationships tend to involve secret language, where a look across a crowded room says volumes, or a seemingly superficial remark has meaning well beyond its appearance. In any case, I've never needed to designate a specific code for this purpose.
6 Is it possible to describe an orgasm?
I'm sure it's possible in a scientific way, though I'm leery of trying to verify that. There's something anti-sexual, anti-emotional, anti-lovely, in applying a technical analysis to it. Science is all well and good, but there are lots of experiences better left to art or poetry. It brings to mind a maxim, often misattributed to Elvis Costello, which I've used as the title quotation.
7 What would be the perfect sexual experience?
this question made me laugh out loud. Some things really are too personal!
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