So. Better today.
I went shopping. Needed groceries and some miscellaneous stuff. Decided to stop at a couple of local shops to get a couple of Christmas gifts while I was out. Looking back, it might have been better to have waited. My patience is still a little thin, so I was more prone to just tossing things into the basket than weighing my options. Weighing is complicated; tossing is easy.
One of my destinations was the "dime" store at which I buy the majority of my jewelry supplies. I want to make a couple of things for Christmas, and I had a coupon (danger! danger!). Had I only purchased what I intended to get, I might've spent $20.
$102 later...
After my expletive-laden post yesterday, I mellowed out and [fairly] calmly removed the lights from Christmas tree. Discovered that 2 of them had fallen out somewhere along the line (like, not really all that surprising, given that the stupid thing has moved in and out of storage, lights attached, twice a year every year since 2004). I set the lights aside to discard and replaced them with one of the four others that were in the box of ornaments that I'd pulled out. FOUR. WTF?! I don't know. Anyway, I checked them first, and then put them on the tree. There were a couple that were burned out, so I replaced them with spares from the initial set (smart, eh?). Plunked on a few ornaments. Not so many that it looks over-laden, but enough that it looks like Christmas. Probably 1/10, maybe 1/12 of my entire collection of ornaments. I really should have a house, and 2 full-sized trees. Anyway, here's how it came out:
For my birthday, one of my friends did an amazing thing. First, a little background. We became friends through the extended work realm; she's "me" at another institution. You know how sometimes you just know that somebody's cool, even though the circumstances are not? I did one of those things that is totally out of character for me; at a work meeting, at lunch, I walked up and introduced myself and asked if I could join her (and her table-mates). It is *much* more like me to sit by myself (in the back) and stew silently about nobody liking me (and to take comfort in the fact that I don't like anybody else, either), writing in the ever-present notebook so that no one could ever think that I cared that I was by myself.
So, you see that this person had something that inspired me to go outside my comfort zone, and it was totally worth it. We connected that day, and stayed connected by email and in committee and subcommittee (sigh), and at other face-to-face meetings, and by the occasional surreptitious note sent through the work pipeline.
She does, by the way, read the blog.
A couple of months ago, I got a package through the work pipeline. I knew it wasn't work, because it wasn't a work sort of size and shape. When I opened it, I was surprised and pleased to discover a tiny gift bag filled with carefully-wrapped chopstick rests! The accompanying note said something like, "If you like these, look forward to zV. 2." (Dorks will understand right away. Non dorks: that is nerd-code for part 2.)
A few weeks later, a similar package arrived, with another group of tiny, adorable ceramic chopstick rests. For my birthday. Hand-chosen, wrapped, and either sent or delivered from California by extended family members. Aren't they fantastic? This is my whole collection:
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