12.16.2020

I'm sick of just liking people. I wish to God I could meet somebody I could respect

26. Do you enjoy spending time with others? 
    some others, yes
27. What is your favorite time of day? 
    on weekends, first thing in the morning. During the week, it's just as the workday is over, late afternoon.
28. How often do you ask others for help? 
KT chocolate milk
    when I need it? And also now and then when they need to be able to give it.
29. What are your biggest weaknesses? 
    velvet shoes, $5 movies, and pint-sized bottles of chocolate milk
30. Are you good at establishing boundaries? 
    I'm all or nothing with boundaries: I've either got a hundred-foot high chipped-glass embedded wall topped with razor wire and surrounded by a moat stocked with jellyfish armed with throwing stars...or I'm upside-down in your lap with my furry underbelly exposed, purring away and begging for cuddles.
    Once I know it's not safe to be vulnerable around someone, the wall goes up.
31. What’s the best day you’ve had so far? 
    swearing-in was a big deal for me. I don't remember anything else about the day - like, I don't know if anyone was even there to see it? But that event altered my perception of myself.
32. Do you frequently make wishes? 
    all the time
33. What would your ideal career consist of? 
    writing, maybe taking some photographs. Editing. Indexing. Running and planning reports. Research. Writing proposals. Process improvements.
34. Where is your favorite place to be? 
    home (which is not a place, per se)
35. Do you say “yes” or “no” more often? 
    I say "it depends" or "I will need more detail before I can answer that" more than I ever say a simple yes or no
36. What’s the best advice you’ve ever received? 
believe them
    "When people show you who they are, believe them." 
[Maya Angelou]
37. How open are you with others? 
    see #30, above
38. What is currently worrying you? 
    money. Always money.
39. Do you enjoy spending time alone? 
    very much so
40. Which sense do you use the most? 
    sixth
41. How would you define the meaning of life? 
    'pet the kitties'
42. What questions are you asked often?
        The work edition:
    a) "Can I [blah blah blah that I've already said you cannot do based on a legal document]?"
    b) "Is this [legal document] valid?"
    c) "Are you busy [working]?"
43. When was the last time you made a change? 
    October 21st
44. Do you enjoy talking about yourself? 
    depends on the circumstances. Sometimes?
45. What does the word “birthday” connote? 
    the anniversary of one's first day of life
46. Who do you call when you’re upset?
    no one. As with killing spiders and minor household emergencies, some things are mine and mine alone.
gorgeous. And sunrise.
47. How often do you procrastinate? 
    is there a frequency greater than 'daily'?
48. Do you believe people can really change? 
    absolutely
49. What three words best describe you? 
    yearning, observant, strong
50. When did you last see the sun rise? 
    last Sunday, the 13th
 
[from here; the title quotation is by J.D. Salinger, from Franny and Zooey]

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