the supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting

61 Can you control your temper? 

    I am a testament to the control of temper

62 What scares you? 

    moths

63 Have you ever let someone go for good? 

     uh yeah

64 Name five kinks of yours.  

    in the sense of traits or habits that make me like someone? 

    • playfulness

    • honesty

    • curiosity

    • independent interests

    • little touches

65 What’s your star sign? Does your personality match it? 

    I'm a Virgo, increasingly in name only. I was due to be a Leo but was a couple weeks late. I think I'm more Leo than Virgo as a grown up.

66 What would you do with a million dollars? 

    'keep' a man

67 Do you believe in higher powers? 

    sure

68 What are three things you want to do before you die? 

    • travel

    • pay my bills

    • write

69 Do you consider yourself mature? 

    not really

70 Name five turn-ons. 

    continuing my answers to #64, above...

    • facial hair

    • cuddles

    • enjoyment of music

    • ... and reading

    • inventiveness

71 Would you like to own a business? If so, what sort?

    I've always wanted to own a bookstore, but more for the acquisition aspect than the customer service side. I'm not a salesperson, I'm not a "people person," and I'm not ambitious—in all, a bad combo for business owning.

72 Do you keep in contact with any schoolmates? 

    yes, the majority of my FB friends are from some school or other. For all the drawbacks to social media, it has been lovely for keeping connection in some circumstances.

73 Do you profess any beliefs that you don't actually follow?

    yeah, but for good reasons that I cannot, or will not, get into at any depth.

74 Have you ever been in a fistfight?

    other than the siblings, I've only intentionally hit one person in my life. He had specifically and directly asked for it, though, so I feel justified.

75 Do you wash dishes right after you eat, or let them pile up?

    that's funny. There are people who know me well who seem to believe that I am very neat, but when leaving for this weekend I abandoned an enormous heap of dirty dishes in the sink and on the counter. Whoops!

 

[from here and added to from here & there; the title quotation is by Sun Tzu, from The Art of War]