3.13.2023

oh lovely, oh lethal entanglements

I ask her and then she asks me. We each 
accept. There's no back and forth about it. After nearly eleven years 
together, we know our minds and more. And this postponement, it's 
ripened too. Makes sense now. I suppose we should be 
in a rose-filled garden or at least on a beautiful cliff overhanging 
the sea, but we're on the couch, the one where sleep 
sometimes catches us with our books open, or 
some old Bette Davis movie unspools 
in glamorous black and white—flames in the fireplace dancing 
menacingly in the background as she ascends the marble 
staircase with a sweet little snub-nosed 
revolver, intending to snuff her ex-lover, the fur coat 
he bought her draped loosely over her shoulders. Oh lovely, oh lethal 
entanglements. In such a world 
to be true. 
 
A few days back some things got clear 
about there not being all those years ahead we'd kept 
assuming. The doctor going on finally about "the shell" I'd be 
leaving behind, doing his best to steer us away from the veil of 
tears and foreboding. "But he loves his life," I heard a voice say. 
Hers. And the young doctor, hardly skipping a beat, "I know. 
I guess you have to go through those seven stages. But you end 
up in acceptance." 
 
After that we went to lunch in a little café we'd never 
been in before. She had pastrami. I had soup. A lot 
of other people were having lunch too. Luckily 
nobody we knew. We had plans to make, time pressing down 
on us like a vise, squeezing out hope to make room for 
the everlasting—that word making me want to shout "Is there 
an Egyptian in the house?" 
 
Back home we held on to each other and, without 
embarrassment or caginess, let it all reach full meaning. This 
was it, so any holding back had to be stupid, had to be 
insane and meager. How many ever get to this? I thought 
at the time. It's not far from here to needing 
a celebration, a joining, a bringing of friends into it, 
a handing out of champagne and 
Perrier.
"Reno."
"I said. "Let's go to Reno and get married." 
In Reno, I told her, it's marriages 
and remarriages twenty-four hours a day seven days a week. No 
waiting period. Just "I do." And "I do." And if you slip 
the preacher ten bucks extra, maybe he'll even furnish 
a witness. Sure, she'd heard all 
 
those stories of divorcees tossing their wedding rings into 
the Truckee River and marching up to the altar ten minutes later 
with someone new. Hadn't she thrown her own last wedding band 
into the Irish Sea? But she agreed. Reno was just 
the place. She had a green cotton dress I'd bought her in Bath. 
She'd send it to the cleaners. 
We were getting ready, as if we'd found an answer to 
that question of what's left 
when there's no more hope: the muffled sound of dice coming down 
the felt-covered table, the click of the wheel, 
the slots ringing on into the night, and one more, one 
more chance. And then that suite we engaged for. 
 

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