After all that, we were starved. Came back here and ordered a massive pizza from World Famous. It arrived in almost record time, we ate, and they left for their hotel a few moments later.
They seemed to have calmed down a lot over the period of time that they were here. When they arrived, they were both keyed up. I initially thought that something was really wrong: somebody was ill, or there was other serious trouble that they were working up to telling me. I eventually decided that they'd just convinced themselves/each other that something was wrong with me, and were trying to determine what it was. Once they realized that I'm still me, they could behave "normally" again. What passes for normal, anyway.
In other news, I seem to have sprained the fourth finger on my right hand. No clue how. It happened sometime Friday, probably afternoon, at work. Symptoms: sore (internally); more painful when touched or moved a lot; slightly swollen; skin almost taut, especially over the half by the nail; slightly warm to the touch; no discoloration. It hurts more to twist it than to bend it--not that I'm doing much of either. It's not excruciating; on a 1-10 pain scale (10=worst) it's a 5, escalating to 8 when I crank on it a lot. That's something I can live with.
After yesterday's snow, today is once again sunny & beautiful. Time to leave this cube & enjoy it while I can.
I think parents JUST WORRY. I don't think this is a critique of you, implied or otherwise, but y'know.. they're parents. They are a pain in the ass to raise, but in the end, they're worth it. ;)
ReplyDeleteDrew, you've hit it precisely right, I think.
ReplyDeleteNope. They're not being "parental"--they're being weird. See this post for an early indication of concern. Especially on the phone, they don't seem "worried" or "concerned" or "proactive". It's more like "wired", "hiding something", and "suspicious". This is abnormal behavior. They haven't acted like this around me before, or treated me this way. Something has changed.
ReplyDeleteHad they perhaps arrived just after having a huge argument? Looking back at my parents, the times they acted the weirdest around me probably had more to do with each other than me.
ReplyDeleteAnd I'll cop to that being true with Sparky as well. He must think we're all nuts (including Grandpa in that) at times.
No, this has been going on for months. It wasn't just the visit. Their time here was just the latest in a string of strange interactions.
ReplyDeleteCan you confront or probe?
ReplyDelete"OK, you two, what's going on?"
ReplyDelete"Nothing's going on. Why would you think something's going on?"
[repeat ad nauseum]
Or maybe that's just my family....
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Confrontation would be treated as defensiveness. Probing sounds ooogy, and would get me nowhere. If they're going to tell me, it'll happen when they're ready for it to happen. I just need to get back to my "happy" (aka "I'm ignoring you") place about this.
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